Not Your Keys, Not Your Coins

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In traditional finance, your assets are held by custodians (banks, brokerages) whose insolvency is partially protected by regulatory schemes (FSCS in the UK, SIPC in the US). In crypto, asset security depends entirely on who holds the private keys — the cryptographic credentials that authorise transactions.
The phrase "not your keys, not your coins" encapsulates a fundamental truth: if someone else controls the private keys to your crypto, you are an unsecured creditor of that custodian, not a direct owner of the assets. The history of crypto is littered with exchanges and custodians that have failed, been hacked, or committed fraud — in most cases leaving customers with no recovery.
Centralised Exchanges (CEX)

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Centralised exchanges (Coinbase, Binance, Kraken) allow users to buy, sell, and hold cryptocurrency through a traditional account interface. The exchange holds assets in custody on behalf of users — users see balances but typically don't directly control private keys.
Risks of CEX custody:
- Exchange insolvency: when FTX collapsed in November 2022, users lost approximately $8 billion in assets. FTX had misappropriated customer funds — a custodial failure enabled by inadequate regulatory oversight
- Hacking: Mt. Gox (2014, $450 million lost), Bitfinex (2016, $72 million), and numerous others demonstrate exchange vulnerability
- Regulatory seizure: exchanges can be ordered to freeze assets
However, regulated exchanges (Coinbase is publicly listed; Kraken and others are regulated in multiple jurisdictions) provide more recourse than unregulated ones. The FSCS does not cover crypto assets, but regulated UK exchanges are overseen by the FCA.
Self-Custody: Hardware Wallets

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Self-custody means the user controls their own private keys, stored in a hardware wallet (physical device) or software wallet. No third party can access or freeze the assets.
A hardware wallet (Ledger, Trezor) stores private keys in a secure offline chip, signing transactions without exposing keys to an internet-connected device. It provides strong security against remote hacking but requires responsible physical management.
Risks of self-custody:
- If the hardware wallet is lost or destroyed without a backup, assets are permanently inaccessible
- If the seed phrase (the 12–24 word recovery phrase) is discovered by someone else, they can access all funds from any device
The seed phrase is the master key: it must be written down and stored in multiple secure physical locations. Digital copies (photos, cloud storage) are vulnerable to hacking. Many hardware wallet users store seed phrase copies in fireproof safes or bank safety deposit boxes.
The Trade-Off

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| Centralised Exchange | Self-Custody | |
|---|---|---|
| Counterparty risk | Yes (exchange solvency) | None |
| Hacking risk | Exchange-level | User-level |
| Key management | Not required | User's full responsibility |
| Recovery if access lost | Account recovery | Seed phrase only |
| Regulatory protection | Partial (varies) | None |